On the same 65 000 € gross, a worker takes home roughly 2 766 € more per year in France than in Germany. That gap reflects the tax structure alone — before rent, healthcare, or savings behaviour come into play.
Housing is the first multiplier. France has high rent pressure, while Germany has moderate rent pressure. That means part of the higher take-home in France can be absorbed by rent if you land in a major city.
Healthcare and pensions go in the opposite direction. France runs a universal healthcare model — Universal healthcare with strong public reimbursement; supplementary mutuelle is common. Germany uses a public model — Statutory health insurance (~14.6% split with employer) gives full coverage. The country with lower take-home often shifts costs that the other country leaves to your private budget.
Net-of-everything, a relocation decision should weigh comprehensive welfare state in France against comprehensive welfare state in Germany, plus differences in pension capture, social safety nets, and city-level cost of living.